Dating someone who has a child
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These days it's becoming more and more common for someone to enter a relationship with children from a previous marriage.
I'm not saying I would necessarily turn a guy away if he was a dad, but it's not exactly something I look for in a boyfriend.This is the place he reserves for family or as-good-as family.This is a great spot in which to find yourself when looking for vacancies in someone's heart.I'm trying to overcome the bond that they have that I don't have with him. I have never dated a guy with a kid before, I haven't ever wanted to take on the challenge before, except this guy is mere perfect.
I’ve said before that partner priority relationships is where I’m at. Now I know it’s not always that black and white and some men really do have their shit together and can balance their lives, but that’s the exception to the rule. They are also more affectionate from what I’ve experienced. That’s when I decided that this probably isn’t for me. I don’t hate kids, I love kids, I just don’t want to deal that’s all. I do date men with kids over 18 though, they don’t really need their parents as much. I rarely go there so don’t ask and please don’t get offended.